To the newly postpartum momma who is in the throes of motherhood,
To the momma who is up in the wee hours of the morning with a wailing newborn,
To the momma who is struggling to comfort a teething baby,
To the momma who hasn't had a decent shower in days,
To the momma who hasn't eaten a proper sit-down meal in forever,
To the momma who can't recognize herself in the mirror,
To the momma who has lost her pink,
Momma, I get you. I see you. I am in the same boat as well.
You'd think that since it's not my first time being a mom, it's easier. But it's not.
Each baby you have is a different experience. From the moment they are conceived, they are already their own person — unique in every way. And with that uniqueness comes new challenges, new lessons, and new sacrifices.
Motherhood is wonderful, but it can also feel like losing parts of yourself.
The life you had pre-baby seems like a fever dream. Just as female flamingoes lose their vibrant pink shade after giving birth, so do we humans.
The sleepless nights, the physical toll of breastfeeding, the emotional rollercoaster of hormones settling in postpartum — motherhood transforms you in ways you never expected.
Your body, once your own, now belongs to another tiny being.
And while the sacrifice of motherhood is beautiful, it is also relentless. It demands more than you ever thought you could give — your sleep, your strength, your sense of self.
The exhaustion runs deep, settling into your bones. I have honestly never felt more tired in all my life since becoming a mom of two, and yet, I continue to pour from my always-empty cup — day in, day out.
One day, you will sleep again — deep, uninterrupted, dreamless sleep.
One day, you will wear something other than milk-stained shirts and a messy bun.
One day, you will sit down and enjoy a hot meal without rushing.
One day, you will have a long warm shower.
One day, you will look in the mirror and recognize yourself again — not just as a mother, but as a woman with dreams, passions, and a radiant glow that extends beyond motherhood.
Your pink will return, Momma. And when it does, it will be even more beautiful than before, because it will be colored with the love, strength, and resilience that this journey has given you.
Until then, hold on.
Take small moments for yourself when you can. Breathe deeply, even in the chaos.
And know that you are never alone in this.
